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It’s not a maaleh to davka not want more children, and I don’t go out with guys who DAVKA DON’T want more children. But I can’t go out with guys who don’t want to go out with me, and many guys won’t go out with girls over a certain age because they assume they might not be able to have kids anymore. Since I can only go out with someone who will go out with me, I can only go out with guys who don’t care if the girl is over a certain age. That is more likely with a widower who already has kids, and while he would be happy to have more kids, might also be okay with the possibility of not having more.