I have said for years that if I want something and can’t afford it, the chances are the giver (in the family) can’t afford it either.
One of the best gifts Mrs. CTL ever gave me was a certificate for 5 nights of my choosing for uninterrupted time with her….
No kids, relatives, no calls, doorbells, just us.
I enjoyed every one of them.
The cost was her time to arrange that the kids be elsewhere and we not be disturbed. Worth much more to me than anything that could be purchased for money.