Lilmod,
Some men are just as sensitive as women (keep that in mind too)
Additionally since you are dating, realize guys don’t like being shlugged up during a conversation with a woman (dating or in marriage)
The chabad.org website brought
Up until that point, the rule was “men first.” Adam, as we all know, was created before Eve. Noah and his sons entered the ark first, followed by their wives — at least that’s the order they’re listed in Genesis 7:13 (a “sinking ship” situation in the reverse, if you will). When Jacob traveled with his family, the males rode up front and the womenfolk behind them (Genesis 31:17) while Esau placed the women before the men.
Understanding it as walking, riding behind vi? a vi? in front