There is an organization called “KidsAndCars”. They have a .org website with information and articles about this, including a Pulitzer Prize winning 2009 Washington Post article, which very much informed my opinion on this when I read it several years ago.
I will quote one line from the site, which I think is relevant to this discussion, and even more so to some of the disturbingly ignorant comments on the YWN news article.
“…blaming them only deepens the heart-rending impact of these incidents for families who are already overwhelmed by guilt and grief.”