Ben LEvi
I am not arguing to support Clinton per se. I am vehemently against Trump which by default makes me “support” Clinton.
As you are on the fence regarding Trump Our difference on the subject at hand is not that vast.
Therefore for now I will hold off n replying to the bulk of your (admittedly excellent) post at this time.
I will however respond to #3 since it is clearly factually inaccurate. A doctor does not have to prescribe or perform any procedure against his/her beliefs. He/she does have to refer the patient to someone else however. (As to whether this is against halacha see R’ Zilbershteyn’s teshuva on the matter.)
I am sorry to hear about the tzarros your family has endured. May Hashem grant you a nechama and may your family and all of klal yisroel no longer have to endure such tzar.
Have a wonderful Shabbos Nachamu