Thats what I think. I know sometimes when Rabbis are doing Orthodox wedding for non relgious couple, the issue of the Mikvah comes up and it can be hard to convience the woman to go, so the Rabbi will suggest that they both go in order that the woman will go
That sounds idiotic and pandering, and I don’t know why the women would fall for it.
Also, who even cares. If she’ll never go again, why is there such an inyan do make her go before the wedding?