“By spending hours on the computer watching these movies, it is helping to prepare him for living that kind of life. He is ‘educating’ himself to be secular”
He has to know that movies are not real: not the plot, not the drama, not the dialogue, and not the characters. Everything is over dramatized.
“Every day he reminds me that he is not going next year to yeshiva, what he will do instead, …. But he may just challenge me and do exactly that to see if I will throw him out of the house. G-d help me. “
It sounds like he is testing to see if he is really loved.