W.O.W
It’s me again.
The way I see it, the most likely scenario here is that yourself and your son suffer from two separate conditions. Your son bipolar disorder, and you denial.
For the life of me I can’t understand why you won’t take my advice and consult a psychiatrist. You seem amenable to all of the other hand ringing going on here, all of which has failed to produce results. At least one other member here has introduced the concept of your son truly being sick and surprisingly you agree. Most sick people I know see M.D.’s and take medicines.
I wish Hashem would put the right words in my mouth to convince you.