w.o.w. – simply put, this approach should only be used when all regular forms of parenting are not working. Although, I must say many of the concepts here work for everyone, children and adults alike. You will be able to see the differences clearly once you begin.
I am thinking, however, that this forum may not be the best atmosphere to conduct this very sensitive and sometimes unorthodox (twisted) approach. Though some of the points made here are good ones there is a lot of outside distractions. The last thing you need while trying to concentrate on healing your son is distractions. So, I am going to confer with the man himself, Avi Fishoff, as to the best way to continue. I will let you know ASAP.