Reply To: Going off the Derech

OhTeeDee-It is beged isha in the civilized world. It’s just that the secular world has adopted uncivilized practices. And in our community, it is a statement of rebellion, not fashion.

Ezrat Hashem-he will tell me it’s not permanent, he can always let it close up by itself.

Aries2756-I don’t know if it’s common/allowed in his school, that’s a good point. But if my husband calls the RY and he says it’s assur, then my son will be furious with us for asking him. He wants to do it bc his friend did it, simple as that. You make good points, but he would never continue a conversation long enough with me so I could get in those points. I will try to catch him during a good moment, and see how far I get.