another form of reverse psychology would be to go see a movie with him. then go out to eat with him and discuss the movie at length. you can try it with different things like going to a concert of his choice etc. yes, you may have to swallow your disgust at what the movie is portraying or the music he is listening to but on the positive side, your son will realize that watching a movie or going to a concert is no big deal for you and his rebellion will be moot since you are showing him that it has no effect on you. it may also open the door to communication between the two of you and perhaps if he sees you accepting his choices then he will be open to accepting yours.
Menu