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I don’t think your wife want an actual divorce she would have filed for divorce sooner, all she wants is behavior modification, which marriage counseling should help you with. If there is a civil court divorce than the spouses are already living separately and the only thing the get is going to do is allow them to remarry someone else. If there is no civil court divorce there is nothing preventing the wife from moving out and filing for a civil court divorce. You can fight the civil divorce but she will be granted the divorce. Eventually you will realize you have irreconcilable differences and you will grant her a get and move on with your life.