I think you should write your ideas as to what your ideal husband should be, each day over a period of weeks. Remember that if he is a learner you will be supporting the family financially for the near future. Are you able to support the both of you? If not maybe you should consider someone who is working. Your opinions may change. After a month, review your writings and you will get a better understanding as to what you really want in a husband. You alone must decide if the boy is right for you.
As far as going to movies this maybe caused by his environment and he may watch it because his friend wants to. Likewise learning can be influenced by the environment,if everyone learns before or after Maariv he may also. He just has to be in the right environment. You need to find out what the boy’s ideas on married life are? As a shadchin you could probably ask him as you are trying to set him up with girls who fit his requirements. If you feel he is right for you try to get someone else to act as shadchin. Wishing you the best but you should talk this over with a parent or mentor before you go on a date with him.