Reuventree555, from Lenny’s posts, it is quite clear that he did not mean it that way at all. He simply meant that he is her Rav and she confides in him and she is closer to him than Lenny is (since she goes to him for aitza more than Lenny does), so Lenny feels that he is more biased to her views than to his. There is nothing wrong with that. In fact, it is good that she has had someone to speak to all this time, and there is no reason to read things into it and put suspicions in people’s heads.
In fact it probably is a much better to go to Rabbanim for Aitza than to the Coffee Room. I am very happy for Mrs. Lenny that she has an actual Rav to speak to and doesn’t have to resort to the CR!