Lenny – I was simply saying that I (and the other posters) don’t know and we should not jump to conclusions. There are many, many possibilities and we do not have enough facts to know, and I did not think that some of the comments being made were helpful to you. You already have negative feelings about both your wife and your Rabbi (perhaps justifiably), and it will not help your situation if people add to those feelings. It certainly will not help you to maintain your marriage as you want to do, and in the advent that you do end up getting divorced, it will not help you make the divorce process as civil and less hard (I don’t want to write easy in connection with a divorce) as possible.
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