You know, Joseph, it is people like you who have made me come to the conclusion that the chareidi world isn’t for me.
Whether or not what you are quoting about divorce is true, in this context it is horrific. Lilmod explained it quite well and I’m surprised at the level of cordiality she has managed to maintain in her posts towards you.
Using the Torah to force women into staying in bad marriages and continuing to suffer is wrong. It says that the Torah is like poison in the wrong hands. Case in point.
As much as many of your posts disgust me, I have to thank you. I fled from an abusive home where my very chareidi father constantly used the Torah to continue to control and abuse his children. Particularly, you and him would probably enjoy a delightful conversation about women in which you would discover that you have almost identical viewpoints. So reading your posts keeps showing me that I made the right decision, both in leaving my childhood home and in choosing a different path in Yiddishkeit for myself.