Person1: “If I get what you mean, you’re asking why it is not ok to be judgemental of bad behavior (like the one you mentioned) among frum people, but it’s ok to criticize secular people for their behavior.”
I’m missing your point (or is it Lightbrite’s point). What bad behavior were we talking about amongst Frum people that someone said it’s not okay to criticize?If you were talking about the fact that I said that people shouldn’t criticize people for being makpid on halacha, that’s not bad behavior, so I’m not sure what you meant.
Anyhow, I think that people are usually much more judgmental of Frum people than of not-Frum people, since they understand that not-Frum people are tinok shenishba. This certainly applies to Kiruv professionals.