And so, to answer LB’s real question:
Because I want to understand. Is this a new thing that they are telling women today? I don’t know what I believe. It’s been pitched to me as a good thing and real by kiruv. I wondered if ffb people learn this and/or ffb guys are taught this. I’ve had men tell me this is true but then again I don’t know.
It does seem that most people here (both male and female) have been told this concept, but not everyone is entirely convinced that it is “the truth, the full truth, and nothing but the truth”.