Yeshivishhock – you make very good points, and I had realized that. I just figured that it made sense to suggest learning first, and then if she says she can’t, to go on to something else.
I also deliberately did not suggest having an intense chevrusa with her husband or attending a shiur, but instead suggested things that are much lighter (like PIT or listening to Rav Orlofsky).
If those things aren’t shayich, your ideas sound good.