just as an aside, (since the point of this thread seems to be to validate people’s desire to do what they want to do regardless of how others feel about it) I have complained about the use of that word several times. I do find it offensive. I also find that my finding it offensive is meaningless to both the posters and most mods. And I don’t care WHO you are calling that name, it is your use of it that offends. And when you are asked to respect other’s feelings and your answer is to make an extreme remark that is obviously not the issue, it says a lot about you. whomever “you” may be.
Not every mod approves of the word, but we do not delete everything which we disagree with.