obtain a beis din's preliminary ruling without actually going to a beis din
“Lenny- good luck with your marital issues. I’m just pointing out to you and any others who might find this interesting, that while there are many genuine sincere posters, there are also trolls. One does not always know the motives of all posters on anonymous forums. Everything said here, even if you find it informative, should be taken with a grain of salt.
Marriage is a complex topic. There is an intersection of religious, legal, individual, and societal norms. No one here is going to pithily summarize the halachik get process. There is no short and accurate summary.”