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Does anyone know if I can take my wife to a beis din? Currently, she’s not talking to me. We’re not in counseling b/c I see it as pointless if she’s giving me the silent treatment to include taking separate cars to counseling. So given what the posters & our Sheila Rabbi have said about not ordering a husband to give a Get just b/c the wife asks for one, I’m considering taking my wife to the beis din. My plan is to ask the Beis Din to hear our case & decide if my wife should resume speaking to me & being a wife again; or whether I have to give her a Get. In this manner, I believe our impasse could be resolved. If the Beis Din strongly ordered my wife to drop all divorce actions, I think she would listen to them. Or do I just have to wait for my wife to eventually schedule an appointment? As an aside, I’ve asked my wife to take me to a Beis Din like she threatened doing much earlier on, to bring this to a resolution one way or the other, but she won’t tell me what she plans on doing. Thanks.