Reply To: the shidduch system

to notasheep: could be you know some singles but as I said don’t think anyone can really understand the pain and the emotional roller coaster that is the older singles world on a daily basis no shadchan or married person that hasn’t experienced it but I guess its true in many of the tzaros of life The boys have it hard as they have to do all the driving planning and running the conversation. They also have a million suggestions people chepering them and mad at them when they don’t go out with their suggestions etc Girls sit at home without any suggestions feel the pain of being judged if they are not a size 2 etc The boys are in the foreast(lost among the trees) and the girls are in the desert.