streek, YOU ARE AMAZING and hit the nail on the head!!!!!!!!! If only there were boys around with your mindset! I very rarely come across guys who dont speak of what they want physically. But but but….I need to be ….Oy.
Like my teachers used to say “Azoi vi se christelt zich, azoi yiddisht zich”… we mimic non-Jews. Sad but true. Probably also related to the pitiful lack of good role models these days…