oomis, what is your definition of having a normal conversation?
You can list a bunch of things that you define as normal that a girl would desire but does that mean if 30% of the time they aren’t “normal” that the guy isn’t good enough?
I think my wife says I have good hygiene, I wonder if I skip a shower one day because I’m too tired or brush my teeth once instead twice a day am I not normal.
These are the kind of things the couple discovers after they get married. Myturnatbat said it well, we spend too much time looking for the “perfect one”. There is only so much you can find out.