LU +1 on explaining how people may be talking about the same thing but defining it differently. Someone else’s non-connection could could be considered another’s connection.
I don’t understand how one person’s non connection can be another’s connection. Although one person’s emotional connection can be another’s non emotional connection. Nobody seems to want to define emotional connection nor chemistry or initial chemistry. The only chemistry I had was in high school when it was [required to graduate.
I’ve been married 33 years and married off three of my children going on the fourth. If you are waiting until you feel something in your heart eat some spicy food and you will get heartburn. It’s not happening. You need to think,(see) can you spend the rest of your life with your date then take the plunge and get married.