The purpose of getting married is to support someone in Kollel because my life is meaningless since I’m a girl and have no chiyuv to learn, and my only purpose in life is to support someone in Kollel.
The purpose of marriage is to build a true house in Israel and have children. There is NO Obligation that the wife support her husband. Your life is meaningful whether or not you marry a kollel or working man. Your life is very important as you can bring Mosheach either by being his mother or through your righteous deeds. In the army there are Paratroopers and members of the Armour units. Both of them serve a purpose and no one will say the others meaningless. So too you are a soldier in Hashem’s army and have a purpose. Hashem created you different then any other female. Why? If your sole purpose is to support a kollel man he could have made all girls to look and act a like. You have a unique task which only you can accomplish.
I would like to apologize if any of my comments were offensive to you but your comment that your sole purpose is to serve and support your kollel husband are also offensive. This is a slave mentality and would be expressed by Radical Islam rather than a Frum Jew.