BigGolem: “Wow, everyone offered real good advice. This thread is looking like a community, isn’t it?”
🙂 +1
I also wanted to add that I think it is great that you put so much effort into your shidduchim. I know I said that before, and I suppose it should be obvious that people do that, but I’m not sure if it is. If it is, I never realized it before.
I certainly think it’s really nice that you are trying to find a way to build an emotional connection and not just saying, “I don’t feel anything. Next…” which is what I imagine a lot of guys in that situation would do.
Hatzlacha!