Reply To: Haftorah at modern orthodox shul (No LH)

LU: Being mindful of LH, I cannot answer a number of your questions. However I can tell you that you would tell me to go elsewhere.

What I really liked about the rabbi was that he told me that he cannot just tell me what to do with my life.

Much like what the kiruv MO rabbi told me a few months ago. Of that rabbi from before, I wondered if maybe it was because he was working in kiruv that he said that to me.

Talking to the rabbi at this shul that I visited, he really meant it.

Of course he wasn’t telling me to break halacha. He did tell me that when someone comes to him, he gives the person individualized guidance and provides them with a number of opinions.