Reply To: Haftorah at modern orthodox shul (No LH)

LU: I’m more concerned that he or someone else will know that I was talking about him. Maybe he posts or reads in the CR, or someone around here does.

This website has been around nearly 10 years, so I’ve heard from the anniversary post. Also, this thread could be here for a while. What if someone reads it and finds out in the future? It could hurt someone’s feelings.

As for #1. Understandable. The good thing is that the experience gave me a reason to explore other options within orthodoxy.

Even if this rabbi and everything was someplace that felt just right, the congregation unfortunately doesn’t offer what I am looking for in terms of a peer group.

This is another thing that I want to work on in my histadlus (thus the thread about shul shopping).

Thank you thank you