Reply To: Confusing halacha, minhag, chumra and shtus*

And LU +1 thank you.

Surely the rebbetzin was right according to her understanding and even with the vow. It would still be cool and amazing to see if there are some communities who light more than two and that is right with them. Though maybe knowing that some people say it’s okay halachically doesn’t mean that I can and should light more. Maybe my tikkun is to scale back on the fire and be content with more modest and balanced light.

The tznius of candle lighting 🙂