“Laughing and joking and fun is not the “S’chok V’Kalas Rosh” that we are discussing.”
Actually, I thought that was what Benignuman had been talking about. I also thought that you had agreed with him, but apparently I was wrong about that.
If that’s not what he meant, I wish he would clarify. I thought that he was saying that having fun on a date is by definition “s’chok v’kalus rosh”, and I thought the discussion here was about whether or not it’s okay to have fun on a date as opposed to just sitting in your parents’ living room having a boring conversation.
Not that there is anything at all wrong with the latter if it works for people, but it seems to me that there are people for whom it doesn’t work.
How exactly are you defining “schok v’kalus rosh” if that’s not what you meant?