Modern technology is also a solution.
Men an woman can hold video conferences.
Woman dressed modestly of course
And talk as long as they want untill they are ready to take the next step.
To marry after only a brief beshow.
May end in a tragic divorce.
No one should be hustled into a marriage before they know each other well.
Those frumies who pressure people into quickie marriages should be put into chairim (excommunicated)