“Had you seen my last post before now?”
no, sorry, I just saw it now. Probably wasn’t posted yet when I wrote my last post. I was responding to LB.
okay, now I understand, thanks.
I thought it meant that someone thought they were doing something kind but because they didn’t really put enough thought into it, it wasn’t really so kind.
Like maybe leaving coffee outside the door instead of inviting the meshulach or worker or whoever it is into the house to eat like a mentch at the table. (although maybe they were concerned about a yichud or safety issue).
Anyhow, now I understand, thank you.