Jhonny………………
You are sounding like a defiant teen. Nowhere in my post did I talk about someone not wanting YOU.
I spoke about the repercussions that might be felt by your children in the future.
In shidduchim, the parents’ backgrounds are often as important as those of the boy/girl. The boy/girl is young and unproven, the parents are grown and have a track record that is open to examination.
This is just a reality check, not finding fault with you and your present state.