It’s ironic, but you need to check out the shadchan, and make sure that he/she is the right “shidduch” for you too. Does he/she deal with people like you? Does he/she know and have access to the type of boy you are looking for? Is he/she accessible, have time to talk with your thru issues that can come up while actual dating his/her suggestion? what is her/his track record- how many shidduchim get set up, how many are successful? The answers to these questions will tell you whether it is worth your time and effort to drive in to meet this shadchan.
If you were looking for services from a lawyer, therapist or surgeon, you would carefully look into the options and see if they fit your needs, how much more so someone who is to help you with such a personal matter as shidduchim!