not letting other’s comments rattle me is the key. easier said then done for me. i try to take peoples words to heart and it has been known to backfire on me.
regarding my wish list – you are one smart queen. But right now i’m over sensitive about my house because 1) im listening to people tell me about their already-been-cleaned portions, that are bigger than my whole house. which is bothering me at this moment because 2) im making a simcha and cant offer housing.
so these threads will keep rattling me even while i thank Hashem for everything i have, (including other people’s leftovers), becuase the yetzer hora can’t always stop you from doing good, but he can certainly stop you from getting schar for it thru resentful thoughts. now that you reminded me that im heading in the wrong direction….im gonna put myself back together. Thanks for the chizuk!!!