“That is when I learned that crying is the way to get what you want, but it usually doesn’t occur to me to cry in front of other people. “
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do you realize that this comment is stating that you learned how to manipulate people? Any parent concerned with their child’s chinuch will teach them that you do NOT cry to get your way, and you do not get your way by crying. I cannot fathom why you would want to admit something like this in public forum. And please don’t say you were just kidding- this exact behavior (getting emotional when things don’t go your way) is what a handful of posters had called you out on and you vehemently denied it but now your are saying it as a mere fact.
If you are unaware how this behavior is not okay you may want to work on it. If you aren’t ready to work on it, it may be in your best interest not to state it online. Obviously with your best interests only. Anyone else who understands what this means is not going to think highly of this behavior so you may want to rethink your view on doing it. For your own sake, of course and your own personal growth.