“and if the OP is truly asking for the right reasons, as I wrote, I’ll be grateful if they included me in their tefilos”
If you meant that sincerely, that’s beautiful, & I apologize for misjudging you. However it really had sounded like you were being sarcastic, based on the beg. of your post
I understood the OP in one of two ways (or a combo). I thought he was either trying to understand or pointing out that there may be an issue. I thought the most likely possibility was that it was a combo
He didnt phrase it in an insulting way. As this is a Frum website, it seems to me that it is legit & approp. for him to express the fact that there may be halachic/hashkafic problems. The same way that people say something when they feel that s/t is kefira
And if you think it’s wrong for someone to give someone else tochacha, why is it ok for you to have responded to him the way you did? (I mean that as a ? & not as an attack 🙂