“Her?”
You’re right. For some reason, I thought he said it was his wife. I don’t know why (maybe I assumed AJ is a boy’s name, because all the AJ’s I know are men).
It wasn’t until I read Joseph’s post referring to a “him” that I went back and reread it and realized no gender is given.
I wonder if my post would have been different if I hadn’t assumed it was an exwife and likewise if Joseph’s would have been different if he hadn’t assumed the opposite.