“Avram, he would become more religious for me. But I am curious why would he say he wants to become a rabbi and how all guys want me and how it should be easy for me to get a good shidduch when he knows I want someone learning full time?”
Ummm. I think there’s several very plausible explanations for why he is willing to change for you:
1) He finds you attractive
2) He finds you attractive and he thinks that he only needs to temporarily change until you get married to him then he can do whatever he wants
3) He finds you attractive so he’ll say anything to get you to go out with him
Are you seeing a pattern? If you’re really looking for a full time kollel guy- then why are you wasting time dealing with People that don’t fit what you’re looking for?