“All feivel said was “you were wise to be cautious””
thats not all he said. He also said
“the picture redleg described is extremely superficial. between a man and a woman the slightest raise of an eyebrow or a hint of a smile can cause an earthquake of emotion in the other person. the next time you saw this boy you would already have begun a relationship. we may not be cognizant of this, but our Chochomim know.”
I admit I’m not sure which chazal he is referring to.
I’, also not sure what he meant by “the picture redleg described is extremely superficial” that seems like a good thing. Keep it superficial.
Again, Apologies if I misunderstood and as a result hijacked this thread