One thing people do need to realize, however, is that there’s no such thing as a perfect match. Every marriage will have its issues, and any married person knows that there will have to be compromises. I’m not saying people should marry someone who’s bad for them, don’t get me wrong, I don’t mean at all to say that, but there’s no such thing as the perfect match.
But in response to the OP, I think we need to reform the shadchan system, and make things more normalized.