Reply To: I think I spoke Lashon Hara!

Thank you everyone!!! … So quick update please. I heard back from the person and all is good. Thank G-d!!!!

I was worried that it was lashon hara after skimming through another thread and I don’t know, sometimes when I open up to someone about something, especially like in the case that I asked about here, there is this anxiety and fear because I only want to say good things about every single person. At the same time, I was discussing a series of experiences that were less than pleasant with someone and asked for advice on how to read this person especially since when I spoke to rabbonim they did not know those details. If they did know those details, then said rabbonim may have given me different advice. Then again, if everything happened as it did, what was the message from Hashem?

Okay so I ended up saying more than I expected right here. It may still be super vague. Anyway. I confided in someone who knew the parties and this person actually heard enough to guide me. For a really really really long time I wanted to talk about this but was afraid that it was lashon hara.

Recently though something came up and I realized that by not talking about it with someone close to the rabbonim, I blocked myself from really getting over it. Or I don’t know.

I do know that I am blessed and very grateful.

Thanks everyone here and IRL 🙂 🙂 🙂