Kollel wife -” I still recall his words – we go to get that baby out of you (to stop the hemmorraging.) Surely EN should have been able to do that?”
Surely you are very wrong! Taking a baby out of the womb, where it didn’t come out by itself, is called practicing medicine. In this country only a MD, DO, NP or PA can practice medicine. I’m not a Midwife, so I don’t even know if legally in your situation, they can remove the baby.
I’m sorry to counter your Motzay Shem Rah!