“As far as she is concerned she is good girl and those of us in Brooklyn are just machmir.”
she may be a very good girl. she may be a tzadekes who simply doesnt know better, with schar in olam haba that will outweigh all of ours. I dont know and I agree that isnt my business
The only point I am commenting on is whether she is orthodox. And the answer is no. And I dont understand whayt drives people to bend over backwards to redifne “Orthodox” for them. If Iasked you out of context whther a couple who gets driven on shabbos, texts, talks on phone, eats trief and wears extremely revealing outfitsis Orthodox. yo uwould say no. you wouldnt say well does their Rabbi let them do those things.? this is what confuses me
whats worse is it confuses others.
I know of employees who were asked by their employers who dont understand the ideas of “different levesl” why they could drive on Shabbos and these employees have to leave early. Lets stop perpetuating this myth stop with the chilul Hashem, they are not Orthodox though they may be wonderful people