would you recommend telling someone about to fly for the first time all the airplane disasters and crashes?
Pregnant women have 9 months of worrying and obsessing, they know childbirth will not be easy, but they don’t need to hear horror stories about the things that can chas v’shalom go wrong. It’s not about ignoring reality- after all they go for regular Dr’s check-ups and do the necessary tests – but why introduce unnecessary fear?