“Certainly if you are in a situation where you might push the person further away you should be meikal.”
That wasn’t an issue in my case – all I had to do was to make sure to put the non-mevushal wine away before Shabbos.
In any case, the point is that the halacha still applies, even if there is room to be maikel. That was my point. You seemed to be saying that it doesn’t.
But again, as I pointed out earlier, it’s not a proof in any case that a not-Frum Jew can’t be a tzaddik.