Personally, I don’t know if everyone should assume that it is worthwhile to go to college and go to work (instead of being home with her kids) in order to have a husband in Kollel.
It is possible that it is, and it is possible that it’s not. There is what to be considered on both sides. In my original posts, I was referring to a portion of the population who has already established that it is necessary for their husbands to learn full-time (and they may very well be right – I wasn’t getting into that one way or another).