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Chabadgal I agree. But the problem there wasn’t the rules. It was how they gave punishments. You could have threes rules and still make that mistake and you could have 76 rules and give consequenses is a not traumatizing your kid for life type of thing.. Two desperate issues completely.

It was stopped… At a price. Thousands of people have seen the video, and people are making a mockery of this type of Judaism.

I’m saying it’s stupid to have an outrage online. If you truly think your kid is being degraded go do something useful!!! Don’t you think your older kids didn’t see people bashing online if you grant them Internet access? You helped share the negetivity by bashing it.

I disagree fs12.
Rules are important. Hashkafah is important too. Why can’t we focus on both? Surely if a school is focusing on only rules that would be bad. But actually in the case of this Lakewood school I see a lot of people annoyed. Read the mailbag on the homepage of a mom who is extremely happy with their chinuch a a claims her daughter has a strong hashkafah and love.

Of course that clip didn’t go viral. Why I assume they only focused on rules? From a 3p second viral clil? They learn 8 hours a day.